A Guide to Better Sex – 4 Killer Tips

You are probably scouring the Internet already for a guide to better sex. However, the fact is that doing just a few out-of-the-ordinary things, you could take your performance several notches higher. Here are some tips for improving your sexual performance.

Take Things Out of the Bedroom

Don’t be fixated on the bedroom for your sexual episodes. You should try out different things. How about having sex in the kitchen or in the bathroom? Maybe you could move to the balcony and have sex there at night when the world is sleeping. Maybe you could do that in your backyard as well. Sounds risky, does it? But then that’s the fun of such spontaneous sex in out of the way places. Try it-sure it is making you hot just thinking about it.

Bring Outside Things into Your Performance

Have you tried out sex toys yet? If you haven’t, you are really missing out on something. These toys can really add more excitement to the game. Get a dildo or a vibrator and add immense pleasure to your act. You should take a look at the collections that are available online-some of them are bound to take your breath away.

Get into Some Role-Playing

Why do thing the same way all the time? Role-playing can add a great deal of excitement to your sexual act. You pretend to be someone different and everything becomes so very different and exciting. You could try something daring like BDSM or some other kind of fetish sex and add to your adventure together.

Unleash Your Fantasies

There is no one who doesn’t have a sex-related fantasy. However, some people get their fantasies realized while most others just spend their days. You should actually gather the courage to speak with your partner about your sexual fantasy. And listen to their fantasy as well. If you help your partner in their fantasy, you will get the reciprocation and things could get really interesting for you.

Sex Life During Pregnancy

Sex during pregnancy is one of the most common questions that couples have when they are expecting their first child. Due to lack of knowledge about the right method, frequency, timing, there can be a lot of misconception and the couple may just abstain from making penetrative love-making. Women during this stage has psychological and emotional needs, due to which she is not able to gauge the behavioral changes in her partner.

For intercourse

Though the woman may not have demanding sexual urges, she does appreciate warm, physical contact and tactile love. In case, she is aroused, she can go ahead and have intercourse as well. However, here are some of the sexual positions that the couple have to take note of during pregnancy

1. Avoid missionary (man on top) position Women on top is advisable and so is sitting position. Basically, go for any position that does not put pressure on the abdomen, and the movement is gentle

2. Spoon position is also advisable for pregnant women. This position is the one in which the couple lie on their sides, their legs tilted upwards, both facing one direction, with the man behind the woman. It is known as the ‘spoon fashion’ because it looks like two spoons, one nestling inside the other. This is a gentle position, because neither partners is putting any weight as such on the other, and is good for the couple during this phase.

Things to avoid during pregnancy

1. Intercourse should be avoided from the sixth to the twelfth week of the pregnancy; doing this may result in miscarriage. Sexual abstinence is advisable during the last two months of pregnancy. Also, if one indulges in penetrative intercourse at this time, essential amniotic fluid can leak out and cause problems.

2. During the fourth and seventh month of pregnancy, intercourse is allowed, unless, you are not asked to do so for medical reasons.

3. Anal and oral sex should be avoided for the woman.

Matrimonial issues during pregnancy

The woman does not retain her shapely figure during pregnancy. It is possible that the man may physically drawn or intimate with other women. The temptation to go for an extra marital affair does loom high; this is something that the man should not indulge in. The man should involve himself with the pregnancy. This is the phase where the couple can actually create deeper bonds especially when the father is encouraging and loving during this period. Things like being together during the sonograph session, shopping for the baby’s clothes and choosing the baby’s name can be some cute things that the man can do.

Keep the Sex Away and He’ll Keep Coming Your Way

When a man really has the hots for you, he’ll be motivated to please you. Men live to please women, that is a fact.

Women often forget this and turn the tables around trying to “get” men, however, it is because they do not understand how men work.

If you can understand a man’s ego, how fragile it is and how much he desires to please a woman, then you’ll know how to be successful with men.

The key is this: be fun, unique, authentic, independent and unpredictable then show a man a lot of appreciation and stroke his ego in all of the right places.

He’ll be eating out of your hands.

This is not about spoiling men or being a doormat. This is about understanding what works for men. Men want freedom aka a woman’s baggage safely stowed away. Men want to have fun aka a happy chick who can get up and go. Men want unpredictable aka, they hate being bored. Most of all, men want a woman who wants to be herself not another version of Barbie or God forbid Ken.

When you date around without sleeping around while being an amazing woman, it puts you in the category of “genius” You are seen as intelligent because you are selective. You are viewed to have pride in yourself which ups your attraction. Men value women who aren’t easy and they secretly know that they can more than wait if they are really into you.

Don’t fall for the ridiculous nonsense about a man NEEDING sex to survive. If a man puts pressure on you for that, let him go and dip his stick somewhere else but not with you.